Fear, Determination And Results

Fear says, "No you can't." Determination says "Yes you can." Results say "I told you so!"

When someone tells you that you can't do something, how does it make you feel? Do you believe them? Does it make you doubt yourself, and your ability to accomplish your goal? If you believe you can't do something, you probably can't.  Fear can be paralyzing. What if you try and you fail? What will people think? How will you feel? Do you give up before you even get started?

Personally, I hate when someone tells me that I can't do something. I am stubborn. It makes me determined to prove them wrong.  Even if I am scared, and am doubtful as to whether I can do it or not, I'll be damned if someone is going to tell me I can't. In my case, determination will win over fear every time. Determination is much stronger than fear. Determination tells you that you can! Once you believe you can, you will!

You have released your fear, unleashed your determination, worked hard, and you have achieved the results that you wanted. Doesn’t it feel great? Those results do say "I told you so."  There is so much satisfaction in knowing that you beat your fear! There is so much satisfaction in knowing that you succeeded, especially if others expected you to fail.  You have proven them all wrong. Let your results speak for themselves. You can say "I told you so" without ever saying a word!

Always remember – YOU ARE AWESOME! Go out and make it a great day!

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